Sometimes

Sometimes, when you make a decision, let's say for example, rejecting a proposal or saying no to someone, people will think you're cruel or you're playing with someone else's feeling. But sometimes, people will think so due to you being too reserve, too secretive, and sometimes, they don't know anything, what you've been through. In the end it is better to stay silent than making conclusion out of something that you are unsure about.

Sometimes, when you do something or say something, people will always judge you. People will always have certain perception about you, about your action. But sometimes, it is only your own feeling. It was only you that feel like you've been judged wrongly.

Sometimes, when you care for someone, that person doesn't really care or even bother about you. But, you still care for them. Even when you repeatedly said to yourself "Fine, you don't care about me, so why should I?" In the end, you still do. But sometimes, that person was trying to fight his/her own feeling. Surface and inner, they show different emotions.

Sometimes, all these are just sometimes. But no matter what, believe in yourself. Trust yourself. Forget about what other think about you. Forget about what other are feelings. Let them talk. Let them feel. Let them be. Because in the end, only you know who you really are. In Life, it is in the nature of human to pre-judge things. It can be consider as normal. But, it's either you keep on judging or learn the truth. First impression is almost always wrong.

Sometimes I judged people. Sometimes I jumped to conclusion. Sometimes I said things without thinking, not knowing the truth. I am no saint. But once you realise you're in the wrong, STOP! Don't say another word, just, SHUT UP! Better say nothing than say something that could hurt someone, than say something than could change the situation from bad to worst. And sometimes, I don't give a rat's a$ what other people think about me, because you see, it's my life, so be it~

SILENCE IS GOLD!

P/s: To you, if I ever hurt you, jump into conclusion, and sadden you, I'm sorry. For you, I'll keep silent from now on. I'll keep my distance. You won't hear another word from me anymore. I'll back off so you can live better~